Dad turns into “strolling crimson flag” after prank at son’s party, leaving spouse in tears

A DAD has been branded a “strolling crimson flag” for “smashing” his son’s first birthday cake into his spouse’s face. 

The married couple have been hoping to see their son tear into the cake however the husband determined to play a prank on his spouse as an alternative. 

The married couple received their son a smash cake for his first birthdayCredit score: TikTok/candie1983

The husband's prank has caused a stir on social media

The husband’s prank has induced a stir on social mediaCredit score: TikTok/candie1983

Nevertheless, his joke didn’t go down effectively and critics have accused him of being a “narcissist” and “strolling crimson flag”.

Candie, 40, posted the video on her TikTok account and has since needed to defend her husband after it reached three million views and 1000’s of individuals put their opinions ahead.

Within the video, the couple will be seen standing behind their tot’s excessive chair able to sing completely satisfied birthday to him. 

Earlier than the cake has been put down, her husband will be heard asserting: “Simply give him the cake.”

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The members of the family behind the digital camera will be heard singing because the one-year-old is inspired to “smash” his cake. 

A smash cake is a small iced sponge that individuals give their childrens to dig into with their arms.

It’s a common approach of celebrating in America however the observe is gaining recognition for first birthday photoshoots within the UK.

On the finish of the video, the husband took the cake from his son’s excessive chair and pushed it into Candie’s face.

She penned within the caption: “The time I needed to choke my husband for placing our son’s smash cake in my face surrounded by household I had simply met for the primary time. 

“I had lengthy appeared ahead to our son’s 1st party and the household photos.

“We didn’t get however one photograph earlier than I needed to bathe. 

“Undecided why he thought this was a good suggestion.

“ I cried like a child on the reminiscences misplaced.

“The cake was even lower whereas I showered.

“If he does this ever once more, he received’t stay to speak about it.”

And whereas Candie will be seen guffawing within the video and reaching her tongue out to lick the cake, viewers honed in on the actual fact she cried after the incident occurred.

One mentioned: “I watched this primary with out studying the context. 

“Sure, I’d’ve been mortified, harm and embarrassed as effectively. 

“Some folks lack empathy – it’s unhappy.”

One other penned: “As a retired marriage ceremony photographer, going over photos taken on the marriage ceremony, this was my #1 and solely rule. 

“No cake smashing within the face. Disrespect.”

Different viewers advised her to note the “crimson flags” and “run”.

Candie felt pressured to “reply questions in regards to the state of affairs and celebration”, so determined to add a second video.

She mentioned: “This factor has simply turn out to be an animal of its personal and simply taken off.

“He’s not by any means a s****y father.

“He’s a rattling good daddy. 

“We’ve our points, completely, like some other married couple.”

Candie assured that she will be able to now snigger in regards to the state of affairs and has accepted that it “sucked”.

Individuals have jumped to consolation her following the backlash of her first video. 

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One lady mentioned: “You don’t have to elucidate your self. You’ll all the time get feedback for each side. 

“So long as you’re good, take assist, ignore hate.”